They're true as true can be. But it's fun to hear what things are different. Fun, but sometimes... well, sometimes scary, sometimes heartbreaking. And sometimes it makes you take a step back and wonder if that's what you should have done.

[It's a futile exercise, though.]

Unfortunately, I can't give you a good answer. Just try and remember it's nothing personal, and the other person won't feel great about hurting you like that. If you managed to become friends once, you can do it again.